What does your current self pleasure practice look like?
I ask clients when they start working with me.
Answers vary from:
- what is a ‘self pleasure practice’?
- I watch porn while my partner sleeps
- It’s against my religion
- I don’t do that
- I like to rub one out to relieve stress
And the list goes on and on
And why wouldn’t it?
I was never taught to have a ‘self pleasure practice’. This is something I only discovered when I started learning how to merge my spirituality with my sensuality. When I found out by working WITH my sacred s.exual self, I can cultivate all sorts of juicy self love, self nourishment and healing with my own body.
The societial teachings of s.ex I had previously learned were straight up hack jobs. They were poor lessons covered by flashing images on a projector in my co-ed 6th grade class with an awkward teacher who volunteered (or lost some kind of bet) and a banana. These lessons included, don’t get pregnant, be on the pill and if you have your period you get ice cream. As I became a bit older, it was clear that s.ex sold and being s.exy was highly sought after. As you can imagine, as a young human in early highschool, I still had a lot of questions about s.ex and s.exual health.
My best friend taught me how to ‘click the mouse’. She explained it to me and I tried it. It worked well. I enjoyed it and continued practicing. These were in no way my first 0rgasms, as I had a lot of experience around that from various other things (that’s another story) but it was cool to have a name to the sensation. Mas.turbation. And that’s basically how I think most people of today, ranging of all ages, learned about s.ex.
This is a disaster.
Not only are we not being taught ANYTHING about our body, but it’s a completely disconnected, lackluster experience.
THERE'S SO MUCH MORE POSSIBLE.
And so, as you all read this and some of you may be uncomfortable, I’m here to scream from the mountain tops
YOU DESERVE MORE PLEASURE
YOU DESERVE A RELATIONSHIP TO YOUR BODY, PLEASURE AND 0RGASM THAT FEELS JUICY AF
YOU DESERVE TO SLAY IN THE BEDROOM
YOU DESERVE TO ROCK YOUR PARTNER'S WORLD
YOUR OWN DAMN WORLD
AND SO MUCH MORE
So, if I’ve got you thinking about a ‘self pleasure practice’ then HMU. Still a few FREE consultations on the books for July. And I want to help you change this narrative for you. If that’s something you want.
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Your self pleasure coach,